Loneliness is the state of mind or body when a person is single without any existence of other people. (mentally or physically)
Being alone can make a common human being either a saint or mentally ill.
Loneliness can drive a person towards more creative path or depression.
One person desires to be alone, where as another person couldn't tolerate the loneliness at least for few minutes.
After going through few real life examples, the conclusion is the result of being lonely is directly related to how the self of that particular person is constructed.
What is self construction??
Self construction - The environment and the situations in which the person raised and influence of the same on his character.
Here are the two real life examples:
1- One person (Name cannot be revealed) who is successful in his creative profession prefers to be alone. This lonely time is very useful to him for analyzing and understanding himself which tunes his mind towards more creativity and empowers his determination.
This is the clear reflection of his childhood life. He was self driven with no influences or impressions of others on his life. He was more independent of his ideas and always strives to get what he desire.
2- Another person (Name cannot be revealed) who is also successful in his creative profession cannot tolerate the loneliness, he prefers to be occupied by his family members or friends who inspires his actions. He states that loneliness throws his mind to idle state.
Childhood of his life is filled with continuous motivation from his mother. Inspirational stories of leaders, emotional situations in his family are the turn makers of his life. His successful life is the journey according to the path of situations aroused.
Both are successful in their respective careers, the difference is one was longing for that particular career and achieved it, another one was driven by the situations and forced to achieve success in order to be happy with his family.
Here comes the concept of priority, first case priority is career and the second case priority is family any negativity in their respective priorities cause depression in them. Depression has no age or gender limitations, it can occupy anyone whoever fails to achieve their happiness. This is the biggest reason for the suicides happening in the society.
Positivity and the continuous intelligent effort are the two remedies to overcome the depression.
Identify the depressed people, fill the positivity in them. The cause of depression is the cause of positivity in a different medium, take the help of psychiatrist in this regards. Tune them to spend their energy and time in continuous intelligent effort to achieve their happiness. Continuous observation is very much important to avoid any disturbance in this process.
Parents and Friends are the main warriors to fight against suicides. Don't neglect the signs of depression which is very dangerous then any other disease. Please help your children and friends to overcome the depression and to live a happy life.
Being alone can make a common human being either a saint or mentally ill.
Loneliness can drive a person towards more creative path or depression.
One person desires to be alone, where as another person couldn't tolerate the loneliness at least for few minutes.
After going through few real life examples, the conclusion is the result of being lonely is directly related to how the self of that particular person is constructed.
What is self construction??
Self construction - The environment and the situations in which the person raised and influence of the same on his character.
Here are the two real life examples:
1- One person (Name cannot be revealed) who is successful in his creative profession prefers to be alone. This lonely time is very useful to him for analyzing and understanding himself which tunes his mind towards more creativity and empowers his determination.
This is the clear reflection of his childhood life. He was self driven with no influences or impressions of others on his life. He was more independent of his ideas and always strives to get what he desire.
2- Another person (Name cannot be revealed) who is also successful in his creative profession cannot tolerate the loneliness, he prefers to be occupied by his family members or friends who inspires his actions. He states that loneliness throws his mind to idle state.
Childhood of his life is filled with continuous motivation from his mother. Inspirational stories of leaders, emotional situations in his family are the turn makers of his life. His successful life is the journey according to the path of situations aroused.
Both are successful in their respective careers, the difference is one was longing for that particular career and achieved it, another one was driven by the situations and forced to achieve success in order to be happy with his family.
Here comes the concept of priority, first case priority is career and the second case priority is family any negativity in their respective priorities cause depression in them. Depression has no age or gender limitations, it can occupy anyone whoever fails to achieve their happiness. This is the biggest reason for the suicides happening in the society.
Positivity and the continuous intelligent effort are the two remedies to overcome the depression.
Identify the depressed people, fill the positivity in them. The cause of depression is the cause of positivity in a different medium, take the help of psychiatrist in this regards. Tune them to spend their energy and time in continuous intelligent effort to achieve their happiness. Continuous observation is very much important to avoid any disturbance in this process.
Parents and Friends are the main warriors to fight against suicides. Don't neglect the signs of depression which is very dangerous then any other disease. Please help your children and friends to overcome the depression and to live a happy life.
